I like social media, it's a way for me to stay connected to friends and family across the world. It has especially been awesome to see my cousins grow up and for me to see big family events even if I can't be there. But there is a down side like there is to everything. There are those people who just wreck it for everyone else. I honestly think some people out there need to find better things to do with their time. Maybe focus on themselves, maybe they aren't happy with some aspect wit their lives and feel the need to spread their unhappyness to others. Whatever the case may be I try and avoid these people at all costs. I haven't come up with a good way to get these people to realize their miserableness, maybe I never will. I know for a fact that self growth can not happen without internal reflection. I am not saying that I am always right, but when I am unsure of if I am correct or I am in the wrong I consult people. I consult people who I believe would give me truthful answers whether I am in the wrong or right. If I am wrong I want to be told, because honestly I may not be seeing why and maybe I need to do reflecting. But at the same time I feel I can't always be told I am wrong and I am actually at full fault. Hence why I ask more then one person.
After years of only seeing black and white to situations I came into a situation on the sidelines, to it where grey was the new option. The area of grey can be so wide spread at times. But there are always those who will only see black and white. Grey areas are always around whether people choose to see them. They are the 'partially wrong' times, they are those who have a different opinion when a situation occurs.
I know I am babbling, possibly not making sense. I am in one of those moods in which life/the world doesn't seem like a nice place to grow up into. It would be nice if there was a happy place that nice and caring people could be. I think of it like a movie I watched, forget the title, of where the world is back and white with shades of grey and then parts of it start turning color. If the colored parts where the happy, great to be with people. And then the rude, spiteful, not great to be with people were in the black and white parts.
Again I know there is the grey section where the black and white people may not always be rude and spiteful, but in that case they can come over to the color side. and hence go back and forth. But in a world like that it would be so much easier to associate with people.
**Disclaimer** I am on some really quite good meds for muscle pain. hence the more out there kind of post.
Bahah a snap chat I took of my cat. She's the devil
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